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	<title>Comments on: My Robert Anderson Story</title>
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	<description>BEING A PERSONAL MEMOIR IN FLUX</description>
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		<title>By: Mary Catherine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Catherine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 14:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had another entirely different reading of that line, Paul, but I&#039;ll share that with you in person . . . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had another entirely different reading of that line, Paul, but I&#8217;ll share that with you in person . . . .</p>
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		<title>By: Paul</title>
		<link>http://paulstephenlim.com/archives/925/comment-page-1#comment-159</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 21:03:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Scott, I&#039;m so sorry to hear about the journey you&#039;re going through at the moment with your father. My mother in the Philippines is now in the later stages of Alzheimer&#039;s, and I feel so guilty that I cannot be there with her and for her. I hope your father is at least subconsciously aware that you are near.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scott, I&#8217;m so sorry to hear about the journey you&#8217;re going through at the moment with your father. My mother in the Philippines is now in the later stages of Alzheimer&#8217;s, and I feel so guilty that I cannot be there with her and for her. I hope your father is at least subconsciously aware that you are near.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
		<link>http://paulstephenlim.com/archives/925/comment-page-1#comment-158</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 18:12:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>P.S. It&#039;s also apparent to me that I APPARENTLY need to practice better proofreading skills. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>P.S. It&#8217;s also apparent to me that I APPARENTLY need to practice better proofreading skills. <img src='http://paulstephenlim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 18:09:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I read this as my father sleeps in the other room, a little less of him here with each sunrise. I have struggled mightily over the past several months against a powerful confluence of grief-fed emotions, physical exhaustion and far too many bittersweet memories in an attempt to define what shape my spoken epitaph for him will take. Striking a balance between respectful reverence, honest remembrance and conflicted feelings is a delicate tight-rope act. I thought getting a head-start might make finding the way there a little less precarious and frightening. No such luck.

From reading Zac&#039;s take, Paul, it&#039;s apparent to me that you&#039;ve apparently managed to stay firmly on message with your pupils past and present, that you&#039;re still teaching the important things; that alone speaks very well of you.   And I think you know where I stand.

Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read this as my father sleeps in the other room, a little less of him here with each sunrise. I have struggled mightily over the past several months against a powerful confluence of grief-fed emotions, physical exhaustion and far too many bittersweet memories in an attempt to define what shape my spoken epitaph for him will take. Striking a balance between respectful reverence, honest remembrance and conflicted feelings is a delicate tight-rope act. I thought getting a head-start might make finding the way there a little less precarious and frightening. No such luck.</p>
<p>From reading Zac&#8217;s take, Paul, it&#8217;s apparent to me that you&#8217;ve apparently managed to stay firmly on message with your pupils past and present, that you&#8217;re still teaching the important things; that alone speaks very well of you.   And I think you know where I stand.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Zac Boatright</title>
		<link>http://paulstephenlim.com/archives/925/comment-page-1#comment-154</link>
		<dc:creator>Zac Boatright</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 06:18:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ll do you the service of being honest.  I think that a truthful telling holds more significance than any saccharine sweet recounting that&#039;s been doctored for the sake of polite audiences.  If I&#039;ve learned anything by being in your good company these last few years, it would be to avoid romanticizing the world simply for the sake of happy endings.  

That being said--to be perfectly fair--I won&#039;t be TOO honest.  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll do you the service of being honest.  I think that a truthful telling holds more significance than any saccharine sweet recounting that&#8217;s been doctored for the sake of polite audiences.  If I&#8217;ve learned anything by being in your good company these last few years, it would be to avoid romanticizing the world simply for the sake of happy endings.  </p>
<p>That being said&#8211;to be perfectly fair&#8211;I won&#8217;t be TOO honest.  <img src='http://paulstephenlim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kathy Pryor</title>
		<link>http://paulstephenlim.com/archives/925/comment-page-1#comment-153</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathy Pryor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 23:15:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Paul,

This is a lovely story.  Thanks for sharing it!</description>
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<p>This is a lovely story.  Thanks for sharing it!</p>
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		<title>By: Benjamin Smith</title>
		<link>http://paulstephenlim.com/archives/925/comment-page-1#comment-152</link>
		<dc:creator>Benjamin Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 20:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Believe me, Paul, I think, like Anderson, you will find few people who would be unwilling to &quot;be kind.&quot; A lovely story. Much better than your tale of Kurt Vonnegut Jr.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Believe me, Paul, I think, like Anderson, you will find few people who would be unwilling to &#8220;be kind.&#8221; A lovely story. Much better than your tale of Kurt Vonnegut Jr.</p>
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		<title>By: Dianne Yeahquo Reyner</title>
		<link>http://paulstephenlim.com/archives/925/comment-page-1#comment-151</link>
		<dc:creator>Dianne Yeahquo Reyner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:32:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Years from now-when your time comes-I will talk about you-I can be nothing but kind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Years from now-when your time comes-I will talk about you-I can be nothing but kind.</p>
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		<title>By: David Crespy</title>
		<link>http://paulstephenlim.com/archives/925/comment-page-1#comment-150</link>
		<dc:creator>David Crespy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 18:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A wonderful story!  And what a fascinating and still very relevant play!  Thanks for sharing it, Paul....</description>
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		<title>By: Steve Grossman</title>
		<link>http://paulstephenlim.com/archives/925/comment-page-1#comment-149</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve Grossman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 17:56:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful story, beautifully written - thanks, Paul, especially for sharing “If you thought I intended it, then I must have.”</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful story, beautifully written &#8211; thanks, Paul, especially for sharing “If you thought I intended it, then I must have.”</p>
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